You know what they have weddings and receptions,
To celebrate two people coming together in holy matrimony why don't they celebrate when they get a divorce because if they were meant for each other their love would have lasted forever..because true love is suppose to last longer than than stupid stone on the girl's ring right?( By the way diamonds are not forever, it takes million of years, definitely not billions, but in the end it will break down into carbon I think)..so there they are divorced...why should they be celebrating? Well for one thing this means they will be on their way to looking for their true love..you can't be with your true love if you are married to soemone else, right? And just as weddings were originally designed to advertise to the world..hands off this is my wife and I am making a public commitment to take care of her for life no matter what happens..so a divorce celebration whatever you call it should be designed to advertise I am available...
This is a serious issue and I am not parodying marriage but show how ludicrous the idea of divorce is..the slightest sign of trouble people divorce..all marriage can be made to work...and people don't change it is just some people hide their bad-side better than others...can't blame them if you decide to let feelings and lust take over and you don't bother fiding out more about that person? So the way they are making it..very soon we will be celebrating divorce..but I guess it never will be be because it was never meant to be that way.
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Hmm...a bit too extreme for my taste.. celebrating divorce!Think there's too much heartache involved in a lot of cases of divorce (infidelity,abuse,frequent friction at home,substance abuse,etc) that there's nothing much to celebrate about. Probably more bitterness. Maybe you're referring to those who marry frivolously and divorce frivolously too.. but is this the majority for divorce cases nowadays or not?
If one wants to divorce there can a hundred and one reasons and rationales with toaday's laws. But Jesus only allowed it in sexual immorality and even then the offended party have the choice of forgiving.
The post was meant to be a sarcastic one. Anyone can make a relationship work if they put time money, effort into it.
The question is why don't people bother getting to know the other person better before even getting together. Only by know ing a person better can we know what is really about them that we like and ( everyone has faults0 can we live with and overllok those spots. Nowadays epople just jump into things and I figure divorce ratess are so high. People don't change only the way we look at things. A loser will still be a loser ten, twenty, thirty years from now. Same for slime balls and angels.
Hmm...have you seen the concept of "love is blind" in action? U talk about people getting to know one another better before getting married...sometimes love blinds the person so much,they think they're able to LIVE with the loser for better or for worse... then when the loser leaves the marriage,life's in shambles, they go into depression, and blame God for bringing them the misery.Problem with people..even in the courtship proces,their eyes are half-closed...then after marriage,totally open.Should have been the other way round from the beginning.Start a relationship with TWO BIG EYES wide open,and then,shut one eye once u're married. Another thing... there's such a thing as emotional attachment... how bout wives who are abused,who repetitively go back to their abusive husbands? These things always are totally puzzling.N'mind.. rambling abit here.
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