I finally got down to writing,
Even though his wedding was two months ago in May I just want to record these thoughts for posterity. One of the thoughts that crossed my mind as i helped preparing the wedding is how every human relationship gives us a bit of the understanding between God and us. Though it is a glimpse but the love the groom has for the bride as mentioned in the Bible is made clearer by the illustration of Jin's and May's wedding. And as Jin becomes a daddy:) I think he will even then start to grasp the meaning of the Father's love.
Secondly, I come to realise that in the end no matter how much we try to change something or make them work it is still in the hand of God. Of course give us many choices and if we work towards those choices it will succeed..so there is still an element of choice but anything beyond that parameter will doomed to failure so a certain level of determinism is still there.